REINVENTING DENNIS (PART 2) - THE SCENTED HOME

After moving from our apartment in Westchester County, NY to Philadelphia, PA and before I could start my job search in the city where Rocky jogged up the Art Museum's steps, my partner, Orlando encouraged me to do something I love for work rather than sitting in an office cubicle all day sifting through medical claims - you can read more about this in my post,  Reinventing Dennis.  "You know, you are the creative type and you should really do something with your talents."  He then mentioned that I really enjoyed making candles.

Yes, I've made candles before but just to give out as gifts for Christmas but if I'm going to make candles for sale, I know I have to learn a whole lot more.  I ordered some books, researched online and watched YouTube videos of successful chandlers - okay, I got this!!!! 

I decided I would start off with six candles that would eventually be the staple scents I would sell all year long and then branch out with seasonal and limited time fragrances as my business grew.  So the first thing I ordered were a whole bunch of 1 ounce test sized bottles of fragrance oils, from various candle suppliers, to choose which scents I would want for my signature line.  I knew I wanted at least one in each of these categories; a floral, an earthy, a masculine, a clean, a food and tropical.  While talking with a friend of mine, Georgeanne, who is the co-owner of a nationally acclaimed customer anthropology and retail consultant group, recommended I come up with a signature scent. A scent that would be original and exclusive to my brand.

When the fragrance oils arrived, I immediately opened the bottles and dipped paper perfume strips into the oil.  My dining room smelled like the perfume section at Macy's and after sniffing all those fragrances, I gave myself a damn headache! Some fragrances were offensive and others were amazing!  I narrowed it down to about 20 and then 10.  There were many I loved and it was hard to decide which ones to use for the six main scents I wanted.  I also needed to create the unique signature scent for my brand.  It needed to appeal to men, woman and everyone in between.  I wanted it to be an uplifting, light and bright scent - etherial in a way - yet grounded!  Don't ask me what that means, haha!  So I started combining two fragrances together but they weren't unique enough for me. I added a third and then a fourth.  Some were meh, others were disgusting and just as I was ready to give up, I think I was onto something.  My combination consisted of green leaves, white florals, citrus and some woodsy scents.  I started out with equal parts of the fragrance oils, but some needed to stand out more and others need to be pushed back into the background - sort of speak.  So I played with the percentages until I hit that sweet spot!  I have my signature scent.  

I've decided to stick with soy wax for a "clean" burn - it is what I used before, so I am familiar with its quirkiness and was successful with -  and now that I have my fragrances and wax picked out, it was time to choose the containers. I think I viewed every candle supply and glass jar companies there is online and viewed hundreds of vessels - or at least it felt that way!  It was overwhelming because I want it to be perfect - I finally found one that I thought would be perfect for my brand's look - matte white translucent jars.  I just love the way the warm glow of the flame shows through and illuminate the vessel.  

When choosing both my signature scent and the white vessels, the key word here is "light" - the opposite of darkness (blind).  As some of you may know, I am legally blind and The Lighthouse for the Blind played a major role during my school years by providing low vision aids, guidance and assigned me a tutor, Ms. Flynn, who was with me from elementary school all the way to high school.   This candle, which I named Illume, is dedicated to Ms. Flynn (may she Rest In Peace) and as a thank you to The Lighthouse, a percentage of the proceeds from sales, will be donated to this amazing organization.  I am forever grateful to their services.   

While I waited for my supplies to arrive, I continued to browse the candle supply sites, spoke with friends and with other candlemakers in Facebook groups, I realized some people are concerned about using candles in their home and I decided to offer flameless options as well.  I researched how to make reed diffusers, room/linen sprays and wax melts.  So when it was time to come up with a name for my small business, I wanted to avoid using certain words like chandler, candles, wick, flame or wax..., that would only identify with just one particular product - so something like DelBene Candles was definitely out.  I asked myself, what was I providing?  I was offering people with scented products for their home.  By answering that simple question,  I came up with a name;  The Scented Home,  perfect!  With a name picked out, I searched the business name and the trademark data base and it wasn't taken, so I moved forward and filed for my LLC.

When all the supplies for candles, melts, sprays and diffusers came in, I started working on making the candles first because testing how a candle burns is important and a long process  The cure time is two weeks for soy candles and it is recommended to wait the full two weeks before testing them (although, some candlemakers test after a week and others only 48 hour).  While waiting for the candles to cure, I made the room/linen sprays and reed diffusers in the meantime.  Finally, the day has come to do my burn tests!  I lifted the lid off the first jar, the scent was amazing and I knew I had this down pat. 

mushroom wick

When doing a burn test, you have to look at how the wick is performing; pay attention to the size of the flame and see if it is too big or too small, make sure it is not producing too much smoke or soot and if it is mushrooming.  Next notice the melt pool after 2 hours of burning.  At this point, the melt pool should have reached the edge of your container (if close, it might just take a bit longer to reach it).  After 4 hours, your melt pool should have reached the edge of your container and be 1/2 inch deep.  If the flame is large and/or the wick is mushrooming or producing soot & smoking and if the melt pool is deeper than 1/2 an inch, it could mean there is too much fragrance oil in it or it could mean the wick is too large for the container.  If the flame is too small, the melt pool does not reach the edge of the container, it means the wick is too small.  I tested three different wicks.  One was definitely too small, the other was definitely too big and the third..... seemed to be doing well but once the candle was lit, the scent disappeared altogether - what the fu...?  Soy can be tricky.  It needs to be heated to 185ºF and you have to experiment at what temperature to pour in your vessels in order to obtain a smooth surface, avoid sinkholes and craters.  Sometimes, you have to do a second pour or use a heat gun to melt the top and let it solidify again to obtain a smooth top.  Different fragrances and the amount added, wax type, size of vessel, wick type, and pour temperatures all affect each other, so it's very important to run burn tests for every type of candle you make. At the same time, I thought I would try a coconut blend wax, tops came out smooth on the first poor, and the cold and hot throw were good and although I did like it, it's low melt point concerned me during summer months with shipping.  Last summer, I ordered a coconut wax candle from another candlemaker, I made friends with on TikTok and when it arrived, it was completely melted and wax was everywhere in the package. She was beyond upset when I told her and my candle making friend insisted she replace it.   We agreed it should be in autumn when temps cooled down but she wound up changing her wax after several other clients mentioned the same thing happened to them.  I received it late autumn and her beautiful candle sits on my mantle in my fireplace. Anyway, this raised a red flag.  If I were to use this wax, I'd use it during colder months and sell at markets only.  I don't want this to happen with my candles during shipping in summer, so for now, coconut wax is out. Once I am happy with the cold and hot throw with my soy wax candles,  I will experiment with other wax types.  It's funny, when I was making candles just to give as gifts, they burned properly with amazing cold and hot throw, but, now that I am starting my business, I'm having issues.  Damn, Murphy and his law! 

With all the testing I did, I ran out of supplies.  When I went to reorder supplies, I learned that the jars I picked out were discontinued and wicks were on back order for several months.  This put a delay in continuing with testing.  In the meantime,  my niece was getting married and she asked if I would make candles as favors for her guests.  I was honored that she asked me but I was also worried about getting  supplies in time or at all.  Also, I was concerned I wouldn't get a good hot throw in time for her wedding in October. We really had to move quick at this point, we needed to decide on a scent and choose the vessels.  She came up from Tennessee and she chose Gardenia and Tuberose as her scent and we found a cute 7oz jar that can hold 5oz of wax.  So now it was time to order everything.  Luckily, the jars she chose were smaller than the jars I'm using for my line and the wicks needed for that size vessel were in stock.  I ordered three sizes that should work with that size jar. With all the supplies in, I needed time to test to make sure they had a good hot throw.  Luckily, toward the end of September, they worked out perfectly and I spent the next three weeks making 200 candles, tying bows, hot glueing flowers and attaching labels.  This whole scenario turned out to be a blessing because I really was getting frustrated with not acheiving the hot throw I desired for my candles and these candles smelled amazing.

There is still a lot more to get done before I can open up shop.  Slowly but surely, I'll get there.  I want to ensure that my candles burn perfectly and have an amazing cold and hot throw!  I want to provide you with high quality products.  In the meantime, I hope you will continue to join me on my candle making journey.

Dennis DelBene Owner, The Scented Home Website   www.thescentedhomeco.com

 

7 ITEMS TO REPLACE IN YOUR HOME

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With warmer weather here, I'm opening up my windows to let the fresh air in.  I'm awakening from my hibernation mode and getting into spring cleaning!  Studies prove that with longer daylight, our bodies produce less melatonin, a hormone that induces sleep.  This is why we have the energy to tackle more chores in the warmer months - interesting, right? 

But, have you ever wondered how or when the practice of spring cleaning began?  The actual origin is debatable:  While some believe, in the days before electricity, families burned wood or coal in their fireplaces and used hurricane lamps fueled with kerosene or whale oil throughout the winter months when windows were shut tight. so general cleaning in spring was a necessity because homes were covered in soot.  Some believe it is based on religious customs, for example, it is a Jewish custom prior to passover, for house cleaning and the Catholic Church traditionally cleans the alter and everything associated with it on Maundy Thursday (the day before Good Friday).  None the less, people have been spring cleaning for generations!

Unfortunately, there are many household items that get overlooked and need replacing often more than just once a year.  Below are the most used in our daily lives and are my most economical Amazon picks 

1.  Sponges - ringing out sponges after every use and tossing them in the dishwasher may be good habits but sponges need to be replaced every 2 weeks!

2. Shower pouf - according to dermatologists, you should change a pouf or loofah every three weeks, however, if they start to smell or become discolored before this time, you need to replace them right away. 

3. Toothbrush - according to the CDC, you should replace a manual toothbrush every three to four months. When the bristles are frayed and worn, they won't be as effective at cleaning away plaque. 

4. Contact lens cases - It is a good practice to get into cleaning your case after each use and to keep it open to dry while wearing your contacts. However, contact lens cases should be replaced every three months. 5. Air filters - keeping the air quality in your home is so important for your health, most air filter companies and HVAC companies recommend changing air filters every 90 days (3 months) - this is an average time and can change depending on the thickness of your filter, depending on where you live, the age of your system, if there are smokers and/or pets in the home. I made it a habit to change mine on the first day of a new season. (because air filters vary in size and thickness depending on your system, I did not add a link to purchase).

6. Toilet brush - While necessary to keep your toilet clean, they can host a lot of bacteria and residue. Plastic toilet brushes should be replaced every six months.  7. Water Bottles - Plastic needs to be replaced once a year because the plastic starts to breakdown. Glass and stainless steal have a longer shelf life, however, if there is a funky smell you cannot get rid of or if the mouthpiece accumulates gunk that you cannot get cleaned, it is time to replace them. My preference is stainless steel. Glass, just seems impractical for on the go, if dropped, it will break. Plastic -water tastes nasty in them and doesn't maintain a cool temperature. Not to mention, looking for phthalate and BPA's free ones and replacing them often will fill up landfills. 

Happy Spring and stay healthy!

Dennis DelBene Owner, The Scented Home Website   www.thescentedhomeco.com

Adding some "Curb Appeal"

Orlando absolutely hated the color of our front daoor, I kind of liked - it  needed freshening up.  If we were to change the color, I wanted it to be a cheerful and welcoming color.  I thought the most difficult part would be us agreeing on a color but luckily, we both wanted the same color - a blue/green such as turquoise or teal.  So with a color picked out for some time, you'd think I'd get going on the painting, but, my partner kept asking, "when are you going to paint the front door"?  I would reply, "in the next week or two".  To be honest with you, I was putting it off  -  I was a little nervous I'd mess it up and would need to buy a brand new door to replace it (a little dramatic, don't you think? Knowing full well, that any paint mistakes can be fixed), and I didn't want to deal with all that hard work.  I have watched a couple of videos on YouTube on how to paint a door - clean, putty, sand, sweat profusely, clean, sand, lose my breath, clean, prime, text some friends and go on facebook to avoid continuing, paint, and collapse from exhaustion!  After all that, I was afraid, I'd probably never add a second coat!  Ugh!

With spring upon us, I wanted to pick up some spring items for the house.  So we took a trip to Michael's   While walking through the isles, Orlando spotted the section of DecoArts Americana paints and asked, "isn't this the paint you used on your desk?  Pointing to their Chalky Finish paint.

Five years ago, in desperate need of a larger and more efficient working desk, I fell in love with Pottery Barn's Bedford Desk!  At the time, it was out of our budget.  So I thought I can replicate it with DIY project and searched online for wood file cabinets and paint them.

"Hey look at this," he said as he picked up a bottle of their Curb Appeal paint for doors and shutters.  

picture from DecoArt site

Reading the label,  it says, Curb Appeal is a quick drying outdoor semi-gloss acrylic paint that does not require sanding, primer or sealer and is specially formulated to work on wood or metal doors, shutters, railings, mailboxes, flower pots and more.  The paint is durable, resist water, scuffs and fading.  It comes in a 16oz bottle that DecoArt claims is enough for two coats of paint on both sides of the door, approximately 48sq ft, with a little more for touchups.  At $14 (back then) a bottle and easy to use, we decided to give it a try.  It costs less than a gallon of paint and  since you don't really need a gallon of paint, it's less wasteful, too.

Curb Appeal paint comes in 21 interchangeable colors but as I mentioned above we wanted a green blue paint.  luckily, their color, Harbor Blue, was just the color we wanted and we bought it.

HOW TO USE

Shake well. Clean surface thoroughly. Tape off areas you don't want paint on or remove hardware (yeah, I wasn't going to do that). Use a 2” angled brush to apply paint in the direction of each panel and grain. Start with the recessed and detailed areas first. Smooth out any drips. Finish with continuous brush strokes over the panel surface. 

for additional and more detailed instructions, visit the DecoArt website, HERE.

The color isn't as bright as you see in this picture.  However, it's not as dark as in the color chart above.

We both took turns painting when the other got tired and the whole process went very easily.  We are both happy with the color we chose and it's results. 

MY THOUGHTS ON THE PAINT

• As claimed, it did not need to be primed.  It covered the dark green very well and it does not bleed through.
• As claimed, it does dry fast.  We started around noon and finished both coats of paint by 4.  The paint was dry and not tacky to the touch a little over an hour later.  It does dry a bit darker than when wet.  Notice the area below the bottom left raised paneling, there is a lighter spot.  That is because I noticed a spot where we missed and I did a touch up before taking the picture.
• The paint has a creamy consistency (neither thick or watery), goes on smoothly and a little bit goes a long way.  I definitely recommend.

If you are looking to paint your front door, shutters, or railings, I highly recommend this paint!  If you can't find it at your local Michael's store or just want the convenience of shopping on line, you can find it on Amazon!

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Happy painting and happy spring!

PS. I will have part 2 of my Reinventing Dennis post, read here, soon!

Dennis DelBene Owner, The Scented Home www.thescentedhomeco.com

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REINVENTING DENNIS

What do you do when you're 55 and haven't established yourself in anything you really want to do yet?  When I was young, I wanted to be in a creative career, like an artist or an interior designer, but I thought, "who would hire someone with a sight impairment".  While I never let my vision impairment stop me from trying anything, I did let my insecurity about it prevent me from pursuing anything as a career.  It took me a really long time to realize that I would be judged on talent and not my disability

In case you are curious, I was born with cataracts and an extreme condition called nystagmus.  I had cataract surgery at 4 months and 6 months old and have worn glasses since.  At 13, I was diagnosed with glaucoma in both eyes, which has been under control with eye drops since (well, the right eye).  That same year, my retina detached in my left eye and I underwent several failed attempts to reattach it.  At 30, my vitreous detached in my right eye, which ripped my retina halfway off.  There I was again, undergoing surgery to reattach my retina and with my history of failures, I was scared is putting it mildly!  The day after my surgery, I remember being bandaged up, the surgeon came in for a follow up visit and says, "I'm going to remove your bandages now.  I'm going to shine a flashlight in your eye, if you see it, the operation was a success but if you can't see it", he paused, "I'm sorry."  Thankfully, that operation was a success.  At 37 I underwent enucleation of my left eye due to calcium build up between the layers of the cornea and on the interior wall.  Last year, I was diagnosed with keratoconus and corneal edema in my right eye - fortunately, they have not progressed. 

Anyway,  getting back to where I was going before,  I landed a job in medical billing at 26 years old and I was in it for 29 years.  Holy sh.. that's a long time.  I would wake up at 5:00am, get ready for work, not able to drive because of my eyesight, I'd walk just over a mile to the train station, take the train from Westchester County to Manhattan, take a subway, walk a couple of blocks to work and then reverse the order after a long day at work.  I swore to myself that I would pick up my art or crafting again one day as a hobby.  

However, as I'm sure a lot of you know, time passes and before you know it, a decade or two passes and you still haven't gotten to it.  I was just so tired at night to pull out supplies, work on a project, clean up and put things away.  God forbid I just left everything out.  I know, this sounds like a bunch of excuses and it probably is but I can't turn back time to fix this.  I've wasted time.  I know!  So if there is anything you can get out of this, it's don't let fear stop you from pursuing your dreams and start now, don't wait because life goes by so quickly.

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When I hit 35, I decided that I was determined to pursue a more creative career and I applied to F.I.T. (Fashion Institute of Technology).  I assembled my portfolio and went on their intensive entry interview.  I WAS ACCEPTED and I was on my way to be an interior decorator!!! Or so I thought!  After just one semester, New York State required that anyone in a design program, must pursue it as a full time student.  There was no way I could go to school full time.  I had rent, bills and other responsibilities.  Unfortunately and with great disappointment, I had to drop out.  To add insult to injury, after just two years, they reversed the decision but I would have to re-apply and go through the entry interview once again.  Emotionally, I wasn't willing to go through all that again and I decided to take courses in interior decorating instead.  A few years later, a friend convinced me to get my real estate license and I was able to sell about 30 homes in the 5 years working as a part time REALTOR®.  I combined both careers listing homes and staging them for sale.  But with both interior decorating and with real estate, my 9 to 5 job dominated my time.  It also makes these jobs easier if I was able to drive.  Okay, showing homes wasn't so difficult, I would just cab it to meet clients for showings, but, staging/decorating was the bigger challenge.  Do you know how difficult it is to go store hopping carrying shopping bags filled with throw pillows, vases and other decor items by foot?   If you happened to see a man on Metro North carrying a huge palm tree taking up most of the vestibule of the car, that was me (needless to say, I was sore for a few days after that)! LOL  You can't say I didn't try! 

I began making candles in 2018.  It started with a conversation with my partner, Orlando, about what gifts we could buy for family and friends for Christmas.  I don’t know about you but for me, this task gets more difficult with every year that goes by - everyone we know has everything now!  Orlando suggested buying high end scented candles and I thought that was a great idea.   Seriously, who doesn’t love an amazing scented candle?  You know you do, admit it!   Now, for those of you who don't know me, I love to craft and make things myself!  So I immediately replied, "but let's make them instead!"   You got to know that idea excited me instantly and I immediately researched how to make candles.  Poor Orlando, he does not like crafting at all but he was a good sport about it.   I wanted them to look store bought and not "homemade", so I skipped the craft stores and went directly to candle supply companies.  I'm proud to say they were a big hit with everyone and we were asked to make more a few months later.  

Fast forward to 2020,  two weeks before the world came to a full stop because of CoVid, I started working at a medical group in Westchester, a 15 minute bus ride from my home,  I was approached by my office manager one day and she asked if I wanted to help our local hospital because they were overwhelmed with CoVid patients and short staffed.   She was told I would be passing out scrubs to the doctors, nurses and other staff members who required them.   So without hesitation, I volunteered to go.  When I got there, the hospital needed people to work as unit clerks on several floors.  I didn't expect to be assigned to one of the ICU's for CoVid patients but I went anyway.  I wasn't prepared for what was in store for me.  Hearing stories of and seeing images of hospitals dealing with the crisis is one thing but seeing it in the midst of all of it, is on a whole different intense level. That first day was so frightening and emotionally overwhelming but I stuck with it and was there for four months.  It was an experience I will never forget and I am proud of myself for being a part of!  

Once I returned back to the medical group, after my stint at the hospital, I wasn't the same anymore.  I wasn't depressed but I wasn't happy either.  I noticed the patients had changed, too.  People had become more demanding, impatient and rude. In all the years in the medical field, I think I had 3 arguments with patients.  I can honestly say, I had(have) excellent customer service skills and was able to placate the most angriest of people.  But upon returning, I'd have three arguments a week and I guess my patience, for these rude patients was wearing thin, too.  

I need to backtrack a little here to 2018, again.  Orlando and I decided to take a weekend trip.  We chose to visit Philadelphia.  We had visited the City of Brotherly Love a while back and we liked it a lot - it's so rich in history.  It was mid June and the weather couldn't have been any more perfect to walk the city and take in all the touristy stuff you do when visiting a place.   We had a really fun time together - a well needed getaway just for ourselves alone.  On Sunday morning, we decided to wake up early and go for a walk before we headed back home.  On our walk, we stumbled on an Open House and decided to be nosy and take a look.  It was a charming three bedroom row-house priced at $175K and the yearly property tax was only $2K.  What?!?!  Our jaws dropped at how cheap the home was.  Toto, I don't think we are in New York, anymore!  We have been saving for years to buy a home in New York and while we were able to afford a home, it was the property taxes that held us back.  We certainly didn't want to be house-poor - especially at our age.  "Would you consider moving out of New York?" I asked.  He replied without hesitation, "Yup! I can live anywhere."  A part of me was joking but a part of me was really considering the thought.  I have never lived more than 20 miles from the home I grew up in, so I was shocked that I had asked, especially, knowing that Orlando is the “fly by the seat of your pants” type. Me, on the other hand, needs to think things through, make a plan of action, rethink it, create a timeline of action, alter it, ruminate, conjure up dramatic scenarios, lose sleep for days weeks, months… until I get the ball rolling.   But there I was scrolling through Trulia the very next day on a mission.  A couple of days later Orlando is on the couch and I'm at my desk, both thumbing through property listings, we turned to each other with excitement,  “omg, check out this house, I love it!!!”, we said in unison.  It turned out to be the same one.  We called our friend’s Aunt, who is a REALTOR® in Philly and asked her if she would do a video tour of the house.  The next day, we received it.  It was better than we thought - and I called her immediately to put in an offer!  The day after that, we were in contract!  WTF was I thinking buying a house on a whim?  But, there we were, homeowners.  We knew we couldn't move at the time, so we talked it over and decided we would move to Philly in five years and use the house as a weekend getaway in the time being.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch - or in this case, the medical group, I was going through the motions in a state of numbness.  I think I was experiencing a mild form of PTSD from my experience at the hospital and yet, I felt so alive there, worried about my new diagnosis with my eye, stressing over some personal family issues and dealing with the every day stresses of working in a medical office, I needed a change and soon.  One morning in late October, I woke up and grabbed my phone and noticed there was several missed calls and notifications from our alarm system at the house.  Apparently, the glass break sensor’s battery died, which triggered the alarm, the alarm company couldn’t get a hold of us, so they called the police.  The police investigated and found no attempt of a break in - phew!  But what if we did have a break in?  What were we to do?  It’s a two hour drive from our co-op to the house.  Although, I was relieved it was a false alarm, it raised concerns of “what ifs” and my partner and I decided it would be best if we moved sooner than later.  He can work remotely but I would need to find a job.  He said his salary could cover us both and we could move and I could then look for a job.  I was a little unsure of just moving without having something in place and said I needed some time to think it over  When I get to work I overheard a conversation about me - actually, it was blaming a situation on my vision!  I was shocked, hurt, and angered.  I wasn’t going to be anyone’s scapegoat.  I immediately opened Word and composed my resignation letter.  I gave one month's notice because that office is extremely busy and I didn't want to leave my coworkers (who I worked closely with and that I liked) so abruptly. 

We've been here, in Philly, for a bit over a year now and we are in enjoying our new house and neighborhood.  People are so friendly here and we've become friends with some of our neighbors.  We moved at just the right time, with CoVid still going strong, I think we would have killed each other in our one bedroom apartment in New York.  Here, we have more room between us and we were able to spend some time outside on our porch or backyard.  

My plan was to take some time off to put the house together and spend a few months to relax and regenerate before searching for a job.   Some of the symptoms I've experienced with my corneal edema are blurred and foggy vision, "halos" around light sources and scratchy, itchy eye.  My condition goes from no symptoms to mild and then there are days it's really bad.  One time while crossing the street to head to work, my vision got so foggy, I couldn't see the streetlight turn for me to cross.  Luckily, a co-worker yelled out that I could cross.  When we both got to the office, she was joking around saying, damn you must be tired today, you weren't paying attention.  I had explained that my vision was hazy but suddenly just got so bad, I couldn't see the traffic light.  Most of the time my vision does not get that hazy, so it really scared me.  Anyway, sometime early last year, Orlando approached me and said, "I was thinking, you really don't need to go back to work, my salary can cover us both.  Give your eyes a rest and why don't you do something that you like that doesn't require so much reading of small print.  Hey, you enjoyed making those candles, why don't you start your own candle business."  Wow, I'm very lucky!

(to be continued)

Dennis DelBene Owner, The Scented Home www.thescentedhomeco.com